

Psychotherapy on Healing from Abusive Relationships | Group and Individual Therapy
Please note: this project was an initiative by Xiaojie and Megan as individuals, and was not a service provided by CandleX. In Beijing, there has always been an unmet need to support women in the international community who were in abusive relationships. Survivors are usually invisible due to the shame, and affordable professional support almost does not exist due to the scarce resources and high costs. Abusive relationships can exist in the form of domestic violence, intimat
Nov 15, 2021


CandleX: What it Means to Me, and the Community | Xiaojie on EmberFlame
In February of 2021, Zhen from EmberFlame interviewed CandleX’s director Xiaojie on her story of founding and running CandleX. Thank you...
Nov 4, 2021


Never say Never | My Love Story With Brazilian Jiujitsu
Never Tony, a good friend of mine, showed me a video of him in this gym class he was going to, some kind of foreign fighting thing. All I...
Feb 11, 2021


Grandpa David | My Emotions, My Stories
I woke up in a hotel bed in Chiang Mai, Thailand, checked my phone. There it is, on my screen My breath was gone for a second. The next...
Dec 18, 2020


Fear of Rejection | Xiaojie's Story
In Sep 2015, I went visit NYC and friends there. As I was walking in China Town, I passed a fire fighter station. Growing up watching...
Oct 5, 2019


The Fine Line between Life and Death l Xiaojie’s poem
You are in China. You have depression. You feel all alone. You want to check out. I don’t know who you are. But I know what you are going...
Sep 19, 2019

