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This article was originally written in English by the author Qin Xiaojie (Counselor, Psychotherapist) and later translated into Chinese by DeepSeek, adhering to the  original intent of the writing and the ethical principles of writing about client experiences . 文章由作者秦小杰（心理咨询师，心理治疗师）用英文文写作，后经Deepseek翻译成中文（向下滑动到后半部分可见），秉持： 写作初心和来访咨询故事写作伦理原则 . Author: Xiaojie Qin Time: Feb 2026 The Work of Reintegration Shamanic unburdening  is, without question, a pivotal step in Internal Famil

This article was originally written in Chinese by the author Qin Xiaojie (Counselor, Psychotherapist) and later translated into English by DeepSeek, adhering to the  original intent of the writing and the ethical principles of writing about client experiences . 文章由作者秦小杰（心理咨询师，心理治疗师）用中文写作（向下滑动到后半部分可见），后经Deepseek翻译成英文，秉持： 写作初心和来访咨询故事写作伦理原则。 Author:  Xiaojie Qin Time: Feb 2026 When we successfully use the 'waiting room' technique to temporarily place the protectors of the exiles

This article was originally written in Chinese by the author Qin Xiaojie (Counselor, Psychotherapist) and later translated into English by DeepSeek, adhering to the  original intent of the writing and the ethical principles of writing about client experiences . 文章由作者秦小杰（心理咨询师，心理治疗师）用中文写作（向下滑动到后半部分可见），后经Deepseek翻译成英文，秉持： 写作初心和来访咨询故事写作伦理原则。 Author:  Xiaojie Qin Time: Feb 2026 In the previous chapter, I described how I used  "role-play"   with my client Xuan to efficiently and d

This article was originally written in Chinese by the author Qin Xiaojie (Counselor, Psychotherapist) and later translated into English by DeepSeek, adhering to the  original intent of the writing and the ethical principles of writing about client experiences . 文章由作者秦小杰（心理咨询师，心理治疗师）用中文写作（向下滑动到后半部分可见），后经Deepseek翻译成英文，秉持： 写作初心和来访咨询故事写作伦理原则 。 Author:  Xiaojie Qin Time: Feb 2026 Deviating from the Theoretical Course: A Creative Choice Rooted in the Present In the previous chapter

This article was originally written in Chinese by the author Qin Xiaojie (Counselor, Psychotherapist) and later translated into English by DeepSeek, adhering to the  original intent of the writing and the ethical principles of writing about client experiences. 文章由作者秦小杰（心理咨询师，心理治疗师）用中文写作，后经 Deepseek 翻译成英文，秉持:  写作初心和来访咨询故事写作伦理原则。 Author:  Qin Xiaojie Date: January 2026 By applying the theoretical framework of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy to explore Xuanxuan's experienc

文章由作者 秦小杰 （心理咨询师，心理治疗师）用中文写作，后经deepseek翻译成英文，秉持： 写作初心和来访咨询故事写作原则 . This article was originally written in Chinese by  Qin Xiaojie  (Counselor and Psychotherapist), and later translated into English with DeepSeek, adhering to the author’s  original intent and principles of writing about client stories . Author:  Xiaojie Qin  | Psychotherapist Time: Dec 2025 My therapy with Xuanxuan, a client whose experience is defined by  polarized states (Chapter 1) , began with the crucial

文章由作者 秦小杰 （心理咨询师，心理治疗师）用中文写作，后经deepseek翻译成英文，秉持： 写作初心和来访咨询故事写作原则 . This article was originally written in Chinese by  Qin Xiaojie  (Counselor and Psychotherapist), and later translated into English with DeepSeek, adhering to the author’s  original intent and principles of writing about client stories . 作者： 秦小杰 Author: Xiaojie Qin  时间：2025年12月 Time: Dec 2025  The Exhausted Manager: The Tyrant "I have so many responsibilities. I can't stop. Doing well is simply what's expected,

At CandleX, we were first introduced to the complex reality of abusive relationships through the courageous stories shared in our !!!!!!!!!! Mental Health Peer Support Group . Over the years, our peer group meetings have been privileged to support a number of individuals who felt isolated, conflicted and ashamed on their own journey. In 2023,  Xiaojie , a Psychotherapist and the Director of CandleX, created a series of five psychoeducation videos after providing a few rounds