

Chapter 2: Cecilia in the Aftermath –Haunted by Petals
Editor: Xiaojie Qin Time: Aug 2025 As Cecilia’s therapist, I witnessed the tremendous challenges she faced in rebuilding her life after leaving an abusive marriage. Leaving abuse takes extraordinary strength (see Chapter 1: Cecilia's Escape - From Broken Vows to Independence ), and healing requires immense patience. For survivors like Cecilia, hypervigilance is a common response to the trauma of intimate partner violence. While I’ve created video content (scan the QR code be
Aug 4


Online Webinar | Career Path and Life as a Therapist
As society continues to develop, the profession of psychotherapy has also received increasing attention in recent years. If you are...
Jul 30


Xiaojie on Cognitive Behavior Therapy: A Therapist's Honest Take
I originally written this article in English. After obtaining the preliminary Chinese translation from Deepseek, I personally refined the...
Jun 30


致我的老汉儿:做自己,最安逸|父亲节快乐
作者Author:秦小杰 Xiaojie Qin 编辑/翻译Editor and Translator:Deepseek 中翻英Chinese to English 时间Date: 2025年6月15日 持之以恒的童心未眠...
Jun 15


Chapter 1: Cecilia’s Escape - From Broken Vows to Independence
Author: Cecilia (Pseudonym) Date: April 2025 From the last nerve-wrecking hours in a New Orleans hotel room with him, the image that has vividly remained with me is that of the young policewoman who was waiting for me downstairs when the old, clanky elevator doors opened. She was on her way to my room, after the guest had heard my cries for help and had called for police enforcement. “Help, my husband is verbally and physically assaulting me”, I panted as soon as I saw her.
May 21


Individual Therapy for People Experiencing Grief and Loss
In 2024, I launched a six-month partial pro-bono bereavement counseling project dedicated to supporting those deeply grieving the loss of...
May 15


招募|心理咨询师同辈督导小组
CandleX专为心理咨询师设计的同辈督导小组,旨在通过结构化讨论,提供安全、专业的案例支持与反思空间。第1轮已圆满结束,成员反馈 “深度受益于多元视角的碰撞” 和 “严谨而温暖的互助氛围”。! 第一轮小组团队成员反馈:...
May 8


Event Review | Mentor-Mentee Dialogue at FOEN 2025
On 15th March 2025 , CandleX joined FOEN (Future of Education Now) at West Academy Beijing, to talk about Teens’ Mental Health,...
Apr 16

